How to successfully share the family cottage

Relaxing in a lakeside cottage is a quintessential Canadian experience. For many families, their cottage property was purchased years—and in some cases, decades—ago, and as the family structure has evolved, questions may arise about how to share it fairly.

Ensuring a clear and current understanding of ownership and usage across generations will help make family time at the cottage more enjoyable and harmonious. A cottage sharing agreement negotiated and implemented while parents are still actively involved may be just what your family needs.

Creating a cottage sharing agreement

This practical agreement details agreed-upon guidelines for transferring cottage ownership and control while keeping the property in the family.

Specifically, the agreement can help ensure:

What specifics should a cottage sharing agreement include?

Ideally, all cottage sharing agreements should be made between active parents and their children to avoid surprises or tension after parents pass on and the will is read. Therefore, the more complete a cottage sharing agreement is, the better it will serve the family.

Here are a few points to consider and include in the agreement:

A cottage sharing agreement process is designed to proactively deal with issues like these, to avoid possible future friction.

Keeping it in the family

When it’s time to pass legal ownership to the next generation, a cottage sharing agreement can help clarify the process. Without an agreement, any owner can apply to the court to have the property sold and their share paid out. With an agreement in place, owners agree to give up this legal right to force a sale.

As mentioned, the cottage sharing agreement should provide a safe inheritance path. Some questions to think about include:

A cottage sharing agreement can help effectively address the inevitable issues of inheritance.

Promoting family peace

No matter how cooperative children may be, issues will always arise from different opinions. Therefore, a prime purpose of an agreement is to provide ways to prevent these from developing into full-blown family disputes.

Differences of opinion amongst owners on how to proceed may best be decided on with a simple majority vote. This tends to work well for non-critical decisions such as redecoration or usage. However, more complex issues, like additions to the cottage or a sale to non-family members, may require unanimous approval. An agreement may also provide for amicable approaches like mediation.

Family council

Many cottage sharing agreements provide a family council meeting, a routine time or date for family members/owners to discuss and decide on cottage matters. These are generally annual meetings held in winter and include discussions about setting a budget for operating expenses and agreed-upon repairs and improvements.

If the cottage sharing agreement provides for periods of exclusive usage, then the family council is the most appropriate time and place to determine who gets which block of time. Significant matters, like when to schedule repairs, decide on improvements, and budget appropriately, can also be covered during a family council. The council can also choose how to allocate responsibilities for the upcoming year, including bill payments, opening and closing, sharing chores, etc.

Getting started

Even the most carefully thought-out cottage agreements will not prevent the occasional sibling disagreement or family friction. The goal, however, is to diffuse most problems before they become an issue.

Cottage succession planning may involve several experts to get the job done well, including wealth advisors, appraisers, and estate and trust professionals. The agreement is a legal contract, so starting the process with a lawyer who can identify the issues, provide recommendations and a draft agreement to discuss with your family will save time and avoid trouble.

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